Wending Our Way...
No Candy
June 1, 2026
1 Corinthians 12:11
...when I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, and I responded like a child.
I recently watched as a young mom and toddler stepped up to the deli in a local grocery store. Mom, exhausted and in a rush, was trying to buy lunchmeat and get home to feed her little one. He, hungry and over-stimulated by the lights, noise, and colorful stuff in the store, asked for a lollipop. Naturally, mom said "no" because they were headed home for lunch and he could have a lollipop after he'd eaten.
That's when the whining started, then the foot-stomping and the tears and then finally a full-fledged temper tantrum. I felt so sorry for the exhausted mom and for the little one who was simply too young to have the vocabulary or experience to express and process his feelings.
As I drove home, it occurred to me that the same thing can happen in our adult lives as we try to adjust to challenging or frustrating situations that crop up. Sometimes we, or others, simply haven't acquired the necessary words or experience to enable us to express our feelings, explore options and move through difficult situations. Empathic Listening often helps if we're trying to accompany someone through a frustrating event. (Google "Empathic Listening." It's a valuable tool.)Sometimes we don't need to convince others that we're right and they're wrong. Sometimes others just need to feel heard and helping them find the words to describe and explore their frustrating circumstances helps them to move forward more easily.